This site is being thrown together the night before a conference.  I needed to have something on my website (which has been unloved for a bit) as I have all these business cards that direct people to this site. 

I’m a graduate student and an artist.  I’m at a crossroads with my life and career.  I have been a professional dominatrix for a good number of years.  I wrote a book about the reality of professional BDSM (forthcoming).  I have been working as a stripper in New England while trying to finish my thesis. 

My thesis is on Gender Variant Language, neologisms like grrrl, boi, squea, ze, cisgender, pomogender, hir, homonormative, etc.  A neologism is a new word.  To the best of my knowledge I am the leading authority on gender variant language, including gender-neutral pronouns.  If you don’t know what these terms mean, don’t panic.  A lot of people are confused about them.  They are fluctuating terms that depict gender as a spectrum, not a binary. I will be finishing my thesis and graduating with an MA in sociology spring 2012.  

At this point I am not sure if I am going to go on for a PhD or if I am going to tour the college lecture circuit.  I’m leaning towards taking a year to tour, perform, lecture, teach, and have a little fun.  I very much want to continue with my education but my life circumstances might postpone my-oh so coveted status as The Evil Dr Widow. Muah-ha-ha!

Additionally I perform stand up comedy and one-woman shows.  If there are no videos here when you are, check back soon.  My one-woman show If Lucy had a Whip: Tales of and American Dominatrix is a first person account of the mix ups, wacky adventures, and personal crisis that I first tangled with as a noobie dominatrix.  The 63 minute show can be seen in 3-7 minute clips on youtube, bliptv, and on my wordpress blog, A Funny Dominatrix

http://widowcentauri.wordpress.com/my-one-woman-show-if-lucy-had-a-whip-tales-of-an-american-dominatrix/

 

I can be reached via email: widowcentauri@gmail.com